I'm going to talk about I know from my experience of swedish's behaviour
To begin, what caracterizes the swedes is that they don't externalize the feelings and the lack of spontaneity. And it's a different culture from Spain who didn't get to appreciate until you actually live. There the men and women are educated to be equal, to have the same opportunities, but biologically we aren't. Even here in Spain, women have gained many rights and is on par with men, still remains to be done, besides the older generations remain anchored in the old model in which women didn't even work.
It is said that the revolution of women comes from the north of Europe. Although there are advantages also there are disadvantages, like the men have sexual identity crisis. They usually are very quick and abrupt with women, i mean, that don't create some complicity (make fun, some looks between them...) before take her.
I still remember when I told Carolina she was beatiful and pretty, she was puzzled. And she told me: the swedish guys don't say to a girl that is beatiful.
He also told me that what she liked about me was i was manly. The fact to inviting a women to take a coffee, open the door and leave to pass she first and more things.
I think people are so cold, i don't mean to be serious or bad people (the country is as safe, because the state can afford more aids by the high taxes. And not like in Spain most of them are gipsies) make mostly women who are more emotional, they love the culture of South America and so do a visit when have the chance.
Anecdotally i'll tell i went to the doctor ( who you must to pay unlike of Spain) to take away a filter of my earphone that had been inside the ear. He come walking until the waiting room where i was, looked at me and without say nothing, turned around inviting me to follow him. Upon entering waved his hand for me to sit down. He removed me the filter, i thanked him and shake his hand and finally managed to get a smile but a little loose.
Instead, paradoxically, despite having so much gender equality, and have a collective mentality, Sweden is a country that more people live alone. This is linked to the significant concept that they give to be independent (young, beatiful, and strong)
On the other hand, what is striking is that it is a leading country in services by intelligent use of technology very well integrated in society, and when you see it, you surprise.
If you want to know a little more I recommend that look at this, despite of to be a study comparing the swedish society with the Hong kongers, it explain very well.
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